Kris’s sunbeam was sadly extinguished yesterday at age 49.
I’ll probably leave this picture up for a while but otherwise I can’t bear to keep blogging without her
My blog will have no posts for 24 hours in memory of Kris. All thoughts are with her husband Tim and her family during this terrible time.
So he should go to jail.
John Crawford is dead because ONE paranoid white man and his wife decided he was a threat to public safety and called 911. The story he originally gave police is falling apart because — SURPRISE! —- there are security cameras, so now he’s changed his tune.
“I have a few questions about my own kink/kinks in general. So I kind of have this tickling kink and I, as well as a lot of other girls I know (from tumblr) with this kink, all feel similarly about it. We’re all kind of ashamed of it and embarrassed by it for the most part. Also, a lot of us like tickling in also a cute, platonic, friendly way (like if our friends tickled us, we’d be so extremely happy) but I’m confused by that and worried that that’s “wrong” or something because it’s also a kink. So I guess my questions are: how do you get over feeling ashamed of your own kink? And is it possible to really enjoy something as a kink, but also separately as a totally platonic enjoyment?”
I think you’re blowing this a teensy-bit out of proportion? It’s not an especially weird turn-on, and I don’t really think it needs the ‘kink’ designator. It’s like if someone said they had a ‘kissing kink.’ It’s just something you like?
There’s literally 0% reason to be ashamed of this. Why would it be shameful? There answer is ‘no answer’, because there is no reason! It’s not doing anything wrong or creepy or whatever. If your dream sexual experience is a guy going to town on your feet with a feather duster, so be it.
“I have a very unusual kink. I like to think up sex games. Games like too hot or my own game where each partner has 30 seconds to try and make the other partner moan, gasp or say anything but either kissing or touching. If the partner being touch or kissed moans they lose and have to do a round of sex of whatever the winner wants. Games like these turn me on so much, is that weird or perfectly find to have a kink of teasing?”
You see, again: actually, not unusual at all!
There are a whole lot of other little sexy things involving being pinned down, squirming, touched intimately, squealing and begging for mercy – in fact it’s maybe one of the most popular families of fantasies! So, the real problem isn’t the “kink”, but maybe that you’ve convinced yourself you’re a pervert with an outrageously deviant desire… when actually there’s something fairly innocuous and vanilla that gets you off. (The clue is that you’ve found lots of other people that like it too!)
So, daydream away, and, y’know… chill.